In Gödel's incompleteness theorem, the Gödel formula is in the language of arithmetic, so adding it as an axiom changes the properties of $\mathbb{N}$. To me that's already difficult to grasp, because the natural numbers seem a primitive and absolute thing.
Now can the Gödel formula be existential : $\exists n, \varphi(n)$? Now that would not only change the properties of $\mathbb{N}$ but also its contents! If $\exists n, \varphi(n)$ is independent of ZFC, I could pose it as an axiom and get an extra natural number $n$ with property $\varphi(n)$. Would this number be computable, i.e. could we get its explicit sequence of digits? If so, what would happen if I instead pose $\lnot\exists n, \varphi(n)$ and apply that statement to that same explicit sequence of digits?
No, any true existential sentence is provable even in fairly weak theories such as Robinson Arithmetic. So see why, take a true existential sentence $(\exists x) \phi(x)$, where $\phi$ is quantifier free. If such a sentence is true, there is an $n$ such that $\phi(n)$ is true. By induction on the construction of quantifier free sentences, one can easily show that Robinson Arithmetic proves $\phi(n)$. Thus Robinson Arithmetic proves $(\exists x) \phi(x)$.