Suppose $P(x,y)$ is a property pertaining to any object $x$ and $y$.
Let $\exists!$ be the unique existential quantifier.
Then I just found that $\exists!x\exists!yP(x,y)$ is not necessarily equivalent to $\exists!y\exists!xP(x,y)$ , generally.
For instance, suppose that $P(1,0),P(2,1),P(2,2)$ are true statements, otherwise $P(x,y)$ is false. Then clearly $\exists!x\exists!yP(x,y)$ is true but $\exists!y\exists!xP(x,y)$ is false.
Then how can I express sentences such as "there exists a unique pair of sets $x$ and $y$ such that $P(x,y)$" , meaning that there exists an object $x$ and an object $y$ such that $P(x,y)$ and that $x=x'\land y=y'$ whenever $P(x,y)\land P(x',y')$ ?
$\exists!x\exists yP(x,y)\land\exists!y\exists xP(x,y)$