I think, after reading through some of the questions here and their answers, that there are many people here who share my opinion on high school mathematics that it's quite different from "real mathematics" as taught at university. I'm not only talking about the difficulty, but much more about the way it is taught and what the focus is on. High school mathematics focuses on procedures and very stereotypical problems, while real mathematics is, in my opinion, much more about insight and creativity.
As Keith Devlin puts it here: "in high school, you learn to drive the car, at university, you learn to take the car apart and, if you pursue the subject far enough, you learn how to build your own car."
I'm looking for ways to explain what real mathematics is to high school students using problems, analogies, exercises... they will understand. Good books with this purpose in mind are also welcome. While anything that can spark the interest of a high school student is welcome, what would seem to be particularly interesting is one specific topic in which a comparison is drawn between what you do with it a high school and what you (can) do with it at university.
One of the reasons I ask this is because, while I have always been fairly good at mathematics in high school, I thought it was boring (and I still think high school math, or at least in the way it is taught, is boring :)). It was only later, at university, that I discovered what a wonderful subject mathematics is. I would like to share this insight with high school students who feel the same way as I did when I was in high school.
I have not read all of these, but I have been told they are very nice books:
Mathematics: A Very Short Introduction by Tim Gowers;
What is Mathematics? by Richard Courant and Herbert Robbins;
The Princeton Companion to Mathematics by Gowers et al.
How to Solve It by George Polya
The Companion is a personal favorite of mine, and offers something for everyone: an introduction to the idea of mathematics and mathematical research, a basic overview of some fundamental structures, short expository articles on almost every topic in mathematics, essays and opinions by mathematicians on a variety of topics, et cetera, et certa. I hope to have read the entire thing (not just selected pieces of it) by the end of my lifespan.
It is of course unreasonable to expect a high school student to read any of these, but perhaps you will find something in them that inspires you.