I'm starting to learn about differential forms. From what I understand the coordinate differential forms $dx^1, \dots, dx^n$ are actually the exterior derivatives of the coordinate functions $x^1, \dots, x^n$ (not necessarily Cartesian coordinates). How is this shown?
The only way I know how to take the exterior derivative of a function ($0$-form) $f$ is to use the formula $df = \frac {\partial f}{\partial x^1}dx^1 + \cdots + \frac {\partial f}{\partial x^n}dx^n$, but applying this to a coordinate function $x^1$ would give $$d(x^1) = \frac{\partial x^1}{\partial x^1}dx^1 + \cdots + \frac{\partial x^1}{\partial x^n}dx^n = dx^1$$ which is wholly unconvincing to me. If someone showed me this proof I'd think that they'd come up with the method just because they knew what the answer should be.
I think the problem is that I need a definition of the exterior derivative that doesn't already contain the coordinate functions and then I can confirm that for any arbitrary smooth $f$ the exterior derivative $df$ does in fact equal $\frac {\partial f}{\partial x^1}dx^1 + \cdots + \frac {\partial f}{\partial x^n}dx^n$ where $dx^i$ is the exterior derivative of the coordinate function $x^i$.
So what is the rigorous way to show that the things that we expand the $1$-form $df$ in ($dx^1, \dots, dx^n$ in the usual notation) are the same things that we get be taking the exterior derivative of each coordinate function ($x^1, \dots, x^n$)?
Well, $df$ doesn't make any sense outside exterior derivatives (in this context).
You can see that if $(U,x)$ is a local chart, and $\partial/\partial x^\mu$ are the coordinate basis vectors, then the $dx^\mu$ one-forms are their dual basis. After all, the definition of $d$ on functions is that for an arbitrary vector field $X$, $$ X(f)=df(X). $$ Then, $$dx^\mu\left(\frac{\partial}{\partial x^\nu}\right)=\frac{\partial}{\partial x^\nu}(x^\mu)=\frac{\partial x^\mu}{\partial x^\nu}=\delta^\mu_\nu, $$ thus our proposition is proven. Since we want to work with dual bases, this is why we use the $dx^\mu$s.