The original question is:
Find a $\bar v \in \mathbb{R}^n$ with $\|\bar v\|_\infty=\alpha$ and $\alpha>0$ express it in terms of $u \in \mathbb{R}^n\setminus\{0\}$ and $\alpha$ such that,
$\langle u \, , \bar v \rangle = - \|u\|_1\|\bar v\|_\infty = -\alpha\|u\|_1$
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The question leading up to this one was to show that,
$\langle u \, , v \rangle \geq - \|u\|_1\|v\|_\infty \quad \forall \,u,v\in\mathbb{R}^n$
which i tred to proove by multiplying with (-1)
$\Leftrightarrow -\langle u \, , v \rangle \leq \|u\|_1\|v\|_\infty$
$\Leftrightarrow \langle -u \, , v \rangle \leq \|u\|_1\|v\|_\infty$
where we can use the Cauchy–Schwarz inequality
$\langle -u \, , v \rangle \leq \|u\|\|v\|$ and by plugging in the 1-Norm $\langle -u \, , v \rangle \leq \|u\|_1\|v\|_1 \leq \|u\|_1\|v\|_\infty$
Let $v_i$ = $\text{sign }u_i$. Now Let $\bar{v} = -\alpha v$. So
$$\langle u, \bar{v} \rangle = \langle u, -\alpha v \rangle = -\alpha\langle u, v \rangle = -\alpha \|u \|_1$$
For the other question (I think your proof is incorrect):
$$\langle -u, v\rangle = \sum_{i=1}^n -u_iv_i \le \sum_{i=1}^n |u_i||v_i| \le \sum_{i=1}^n |u_i| \|v \|_{\infty} = \|u\|_1 \|v\|_{\infty}$$