I want to find $N(D_{4})/D_{4}$ where $N(D_{4})$ is the normalizer of $D_{4}$ in $D_{16}$. I'm not too clear on what the normalizer of $D_{4}$ in $D_{16}$
Is there a nice way to find $N(D_{4})/D_{4}$? I can't seem to figure this exercise out and would appreciate someone explaining it to me.
This is a situation where explicit calculations are the way to go. This will often work even when there is a better way and often leaves you with a better understanding of what's going on (I know I understand the dihedral group better after doing this), so you may want to try it first before trying something really clever.
Let $r,s$ be the generating rotation and reflection of $D_{16}$, respectively. Then $D_4$ is the subgroup generated by $r^4$, $s$. If $t$ normalizes $D_4$, then $$tr^4t^{-1}=r^{4a}$$ for some $a$ (since any inner automorphism sends rotations to rotations and reflections to reflections), and $$tst^{-1}=r^{4b}s$$ for some $b$. Thus $$tr^4st^{-1}=r^{4(a+b)}s$$ Let $t=r^xs^y$ where $0\leq x<16$ and $y\in \{0,1\}$.
Suppose first that $y=0$. Then $$tr^4t^{-1}=r^4$$ and $$tst^{-1}=r^xsr^{-x}=r^{2x}s$$ Thus $x$ must be a multiple of $2$ in order for $t$ of this form to normalize $D_4$.
Suppose next that $y=1$. Then $$r^xsr^4sr^{-x}=r^{-4}$$ and $$r^xsssr^{-x}=r^{2x}s$$ Thus $x$ being a multiple of $2$ is also the only possibility in this case. We can conclude that the normalizer is generated by $r^2,s$ and hence isomorphic to $D_8$. Since this has twice as many elements as $D_4$, your quotient is a group of order $2$.