The question is as follows:
The curved surface of a circular cone of radius 2 sitting on the plane $z=0$ is defined vectorially as $$\underline{r}(R,\phi) = R\cos\phi\underline{\hat{\imath}} + R\sin\phi\underline{\hat{\jmath}} + (8-4R)\underline{\hat{k}}$$ Find the total force on this curved surface under the stress distribution $$\bf{T} = \begin{bmatrix} \sigma_{xx} & \sigma_{xy} & \sigma_{xz} \\ \sigma_{yx} & \sigma_{yy} & \sigma_{yz} \\ \sigma_{zx} & \sigma_{zy} & \sigma_{zz} \end{bmatrix} = \begin{bmatrix} x & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & y & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & x^2 + y^2 \end{bmatrix}$$
So far I have that the $z$ component is given as $z=8-4R$ so when $R=2$, $z=0$ as it is given and that when $R=0$, $z=8$ so that is where the peak is.
Now, because the coordinate system is cylindrical, I can see that $$\bf{T} = \begin{bmatrix} R\cos\phi & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & R\sin\phi & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & R^2 \end{bmatrix}$$ The equation we have for $z$ I think will be helpful for the integration but what I need some help with is how to find the integrand $\underline{\tau}$ because I don't know how to find the unit normal $\underline{\hat{n}}$ so that I can compute $$\underline{\tau}^{n}_{i} = \sigma_{ij}n_j$$
Okay so after working I have that the Total force will be the surface force $\underline{F}_S$ which I have found using the stress vector $\underline{\tau}$. Now I have that
$$\underline{\tau} = \left(\frac{4R}{\sqrt{17}}\cos^{2}\phi, \frac{4R}{\sqrt{17}}\sin^{2}\phi, \frac{R^2}{\sqrt{17}}\right)$$
which I then integrate to find $\underline{F}_S$. So doing that gives me
$$\underline{F}_S = \int^{\phi=2\pi}_{\phi=0}\int^{R=2}_{R=0}\left(\frac{4R}{\sqrt{17}}\cos^{2}\phi, \frac{4R}{\sqrt{17}}\sin^{2}\phi, \frac{R^2}{\sqrt{17}}\right)\sqrt{17}RdRd\phi$$
$$ = \int^{\phi=2\pi}_{\phi=0}\left[\frac{4}{3}R^3\cos^{2}\phi, \frac{4}{3}R^3\sin^{2}\phi, \frac{R^4}{4}\right]^{2}_{0}d\phi$$
$$ = \frac{1}{3}\Big[16\cos\phi\sin\phi + 16\phi, 16\phi - 16\cos\phi\sin\phi, 12\phi\Big]^{2\pi}_{0}$$
$$ = \frac{1}{3}\Big[0 + 16\times2\pi, 16\times2\pi - 0, 24\pi\Big] = \frac{32\pi}{3}\Big(1,1,\frac{3}{4}\Big)$$
Does this answer for the Force on the surface match yours? @RRL