Suppose $f: A \to \Bbb R$ and $x \in A$. Let $\lim\limits_{x \to c} f(x) = L,$ that is,
$$\forall \varepsilon > 0, \exists \delta > 0 \quad \text{such that if} \quad x \in A, \quad \text{ and } |x - c| < \delta \to |f(x) - L| < \varepsilon.$$
Why is it "for all $x$" instead of "there exists an $x$"? If $f=x=8$ and $L=c=5,$ then the condition won't be satisfied since $|f - L| = 3 \not< 1 = \varepsilon$. However, writing "$\exists x$" is solving the problem, because then I can always find some $x$ that won't break the condition.
To have your problem solved, we need to come back to the beginning.
What you have written up there, is called Epsilon ($\epsilon$)- Delta ($\delta$) proof of limit, which is a precise way to define limits. Before you have this kind of definition, you probably use this type of definition instead:
When you define it as above, you realise, that it is not exact. In what way that those relations of "tends", "approach" or "near" the variable actually is? That is when you have the Epsilon-Delta proof. It is the result of formalizing the third statement:
From here, you can see that, we are taking the approximation that is defined as "tends to" or "approach" to the tolerance level, the degree of accuracy required in a measurement or the acceptable range of values in which the measurement will be acceptable in our calculation. Which is further reduced into notation by saying:
Mathematically, this is written as
$$|x-c| < \delta \longrightarrow |y - L| < \epsilon$$
with the LHS as $$c - \delta < x < c + \delta$$ and the RHS as $$L - \epsilon < y < L - \epsilon$$
Formally, we would have this definition of limit
From all of this, I think it is suffice for you to understand why it must be that way. Another remark is that, x is independent of y. And you are misunderstanding both misreading the definition.
Reference: Epsilon-Delta definition of a limit