I found the following statements in some lecture notes in category theory:
A functor between sets $S$ and $T$ is a function from $S$ to $T$
A functor between two groups $G$ and $H$ is a group homomorphism from $G$ to $H$
A functor between two posets $P$ and $Q$ is a monotone function from $P$ to $Q$
Consider the second statement. A group was defined as a category with one object in which every arrow is an isomorphism. Then what is the definition of a group homomorphism in this setting? What exactly do I need to check to establish the claim? Here is what I have. Suppose $G$ is the category with object $\ast$ and $H$ is a category with object $\clubsuit$ and let $\alpha:G\to H$ be a functor. By the definition of a functor, $\alpha(\ast)=\clubsuit$, and if $g:\ast\to \ast$ is an arrow in $G$, then $\alpha(g):\clubsuit\to \clubsuit$ is an arrow in $H$. The remaining conditions on $\alpha $ are: $\alpha(g_1\circ g_2)=\alpha(g_1)\circ \alpha(g_2)$ and $\alpha(id_\ast)=id_\clubsuit$. But without knowing the definition of a group homomorphism when a group is defined as a category, I don't know how to proceed.
A poset can also be considered as a skeletal preorder. (A preorder is a category in which there is at most one arrow between any two objects.) In this definition, what is the definition of a monotone map between such categories?
A set is a category where the objects are the elements of a set and the only arrows are the identity arrows. What is a function between such categories?
A category $\mathbf{C}$ is a collection of objects, $Ob(\mathbf{C})$, and for each $x,y\in Ob(\mathbf{C})$, a collection of arrows $\mathbf{C}(x,y)$ satisfying a number of conditions (existence of identity arrows, a partially defined associative operation of composition, etc).
A functor $\mathcal{F}$ between two categories $\mathbf{C}$ and $\mathbf{D}$ is a function $\mathcal{F}\colon Ob(\mathbf{C})\to Ob(\mathbf{D})$, and for each $x,y\in Ob(\mathbf{C})$ a function $\mathcal{F}\colon\mathbf{C}(x,y)\to \mathbf{D}(\mathcal{F}(x),\mathcal{F}(y))$ that maps the identity arrows to the identity arrows and respects composition (so $\mathcal{F}(g\circ f) = \mathcal{F}(g)\circ\mathcal{F}(h)$).
Given a set $S$ (in the usual sense of “set”), we can define a category associated to set $S$, call it $\mathbf{S}$, in which $Ob(\mathbf{S}) = S$ (so the objects of the category are the elements of $S$), and where the arrow collection is defined by letting $\mathbf{S}(x,y)=\varnothing$ if $x\neq y$, and $\mathbf{S}(x,x) = \{\mathrm{id}_x\}$.
Now suppose that $S$ and $T$ are sets. If $f\colon S\to T$ is a function as we usually understand it, then we can use $f$ to define a functor between the categories $\mathbf{S}$ and $\mathbf{T}$ associated to $S$ and $T$: use $f$ to maps $Ob(\mathbf{S})$ to $Ob(\mathbf{T})$; when $x\neq y$, the empty map sends $\mathbf{S}(x,y)$ to $\mathbf{T}(f(x),f(y))$; and we map the identity arrow $\mathrm{id}_x\in \mathbf{S}(x,x)$ to the identity arrow in $\mathbf{T}(f(x),f(x))$. Verify that this is a functor.
Conversely, suppose we have a functor $\mathcal{F}$ from the category $\mathbf{S}$ associated to $S$ to the category $\mathbf{T}$ associated to $T$. This means a function $\mathcal{F}\colon Ob(\mathbf{S})\to Ob(\mathbf{T})$ (which amounts to a function from $S$ to $T$), and a map of arrow sets; since the arrow sets are either empty or the identity, the part on arrows is obvious.
Thus, to every set function $f\colon S\to T$ we get a functor $\mathcal{F}\colon\mathbf{S}\to\mathbf{T}$, and to every functor $\mathcal{F}\colon\mathbf{S}\to\mathbf{T}$ you get a set function $\mathcal{F}\colon S=Ob(\mathbf{S}) \to Ob(\mathbf{T})=T$. Verify that in fact these two associations are inverses of each other: if you start with a function, get the functor from it, and then the function from the functor, you get back the original function. If you start with a functor, get the function from it, and then the functor from the function, you get the original functor. Thus, the functors between $\mathbf{S}$ and $\mathbf{T}$ are really the same thing as the set maps between $S$ and $T$.
Similarly for groups-as-a-category. If $G$ is a group, you associate to it a category $\mathbf{G}$ whose object set is a single element $\star$, and whose only arrow set, $\mathbf{G}(\star,\star)$ has one arrow for each element of $G$, with composition given by multiplication in $G$: if $a_g,a_h$ are arrows, corresponding to the elements $g$ and $h$ in $G$, then the composition $a_g\circ a_h$ is the arrow corresponding to the element $gh$, that is, $a_g\circ a_h = a_{gh}$. Here, $a_e=\mathrm{id}_{\star}$.
If $f\colon G\to H$ is a group homomorphism, you get a functor between the categories $\mathbf{G}$ and $\mathbf{H}$ by mapping the obect of $\mathbf{G}$ to the object of $\mathbf{H}$, and mapping the arrow $a_g$ in $\mathbf{G}$ to the arrow $a_{f(g)}$ of $\mathbf{H}$. Verify that this association respects composition, so that you get a functor from $\mathbf{G}$ to $\mathbf{H}$.
Conversely, given a functor $\mathcal{F}\colon\mathbf{G}\to\mathbf{H}$, you get a map from the arrow of $\mathbf{G}$ to the arrows of $\mathbf{H}$, which must satisfy $\mathcal{F}(a_{gh}) = \mathcal{F}(a_g\circ a_h) = \mathcal{F}(a_g)\circ\mathcal{F}(a_h)$. Suppose that this map sends the arrow $a_g$ to an arrow in $\mathbf{H}$, which corresponds to some element of $H$; call this element $f(g)$, so that we get a (set theoretic) function from $G$ ot $H$. Verify that this function $f\colon G\to H$ defined by $f$ is in fact a group morphism.
Finally, verify that these assignments (morphism to functor, functor to morphism) are inverses to each other, so that defining functors between the categories $\mathbf{G}$ and $\mathbf{H}$ amounts to the same thing as defining a group homomorphism from $G$ to $H$.
If $P$ is a poset, then we can define a category $\mathbf{P}$ associated to $P$ by letting $Ob(\mathbf{P}) = P$, and for $x,y\in P$, letting $\mathbf{P}(x,y)$ be the empty set if $x\not\leq_P y$, and letting $\mathbf{P}(x,y)$ be a singleton if $x\leq y$. With this definition, every monotone function $f\colon P\to Q$ of posets defines a functor between the categories $\mathbf{P}$ and $\mathbf{Q}$: you use $f$ to define the map between objects of $\mathbf{P}$ and $\mathbf{Q}$. When $x\not\leq_P y$, then you need a map from the empty set $\mathbf{P}(x,y)$ to the set $\mathbf{Q}(f(x),f(y))$, which is the empty map. When $x\leq_P y$, since $f$ is monotone we have $f(x)\leq_Q f(y)$, so you need a map from the singleton set $\mathbf{P}(x,y)$ to the singleton set $\mathbf{Q}(f(x),f(y))$, which is just the only possible function: sends the single element of the first to the single element of the latter.
And every functor $\mathcal{F}\colon\mathbf{P}\to\mathbf{Q}$ defines a function between $P$ and $Q$ (by looking at what it does to objects); you need to verify that this function is monotone. This will follow from the fact that $\mathcal{F}$ is a functor: if $x\leq_P y$, then you must have a map from the singleton set $\mathbf{P}(x,y)$ to the set $\mathbf{Q}(\mathcal{F}(x),\mathcal{F}(y))$. Therefore, the latter cannot be empty, which means that we must have $\mathcal{F}(x)\leq_Q\mathcal{F}(y)$. Thus, the function is in fact monotone: if $x\leq_P y$, then $\mathcal{F}(x)\leq_Q \mathcal{F}(y)$.
These assignments (monotone function to functor, functor to monotone function) are inverses of each other, so that functors between $\mathbf{P}$ and $\mathbf{Q}$ are essentially the same thing as monotone functions between $P$ and $Q$.
That is what those comments are saying.