I know, "practice, practice, practice." But is that really what professional mathematicians do? Do you actually solve a differential equation every day, do a contour integral every day, do a SVD of a matrix, compute a sum of random variables, work a detailed vector calculus problem, a group theory problem, a differential geometry problem? That's just listing the subjects I once knew, and it seems as if that would take hours every single day. Plenty of people here seem to know a great many more mathematical subjects as well. How do you hold it all in your head at once?
I have written out many problems and saved them, and outlined books in great detail (Spivak's Calculus on Manifolds, Korevaar's Mathematical methods book, Linear Geometry by Rafael Artzy, a quantum mechanics text by Bransden and Joachaim, Wackerly's Statistics text, etc.)and try to reread the notes, but it still seems that the knowledge decays just as fast as I can add it or restore it. And a subject like differential equations! When working a single problem takes 15-30 minutes, I don't understand how anyone gets real mastery of that in the first place!
Is it just a matter of my lacking sufficient talent? Is hours of review every day simply a normal part of being a mathematician that nobody ever mentions? Or is it something else?
In short, am I doomed, lazy, or just ignorant of something very important?
It’s a nice question, but I think that this is not just related to mathematics, it is related to our memory process and it goes under the name of “decay theory”. Let me cite Wikipedia: decay theory is a theory that proposes that memory fades due to the mere passage of time. Information is therefore less available for later retrieval as time passes. When an individual learns something new, a neurochemical "memory trace" is created. However, over time this trace slowly disintegrates.
It is physiological. Going deeper in the study of psychology and cognitive sciences of memory one can find “tricks” to restore periodically (there are indeed more helpful intervals of time in which one can fruitfully refresh some old knowledge) specific concepts that, day after day, month after month, year after year, become solid and easier to remember.
Overall, the same difficulty a mathematician may find in remembering how to solve a second order linear differential equation or how to apply Stoke’s theorem is the same an art historian may have in remembering the date in which Titian fled from Venice due to the plague or the same a philosopher may find in recalling the exact subdivision of Hegel’s Phenomenology of the spirit. Moreover, in conclusion, I see that for mathematicians it is, sometimes, even easier than other subjects since when you dig deeper in one field, you usually need and use extensively previous concepts: hence, you implicitly revise them and - let me add this - you understand them more and more every time.