"A matrix A is a symmetric matrix if its transpose $A^T$ = $A$." This is my definition.
"A square matrix A is a symmetric matrix if its transpose $A^T$ = $A$." This is the textbook definition.
I understand that only square matrices can be symmetric, but I figured it would be all right to cut out the "square", as satisfying the equation $A^T$ = $A$ would ensure it is a square matrix.
So why can't I omit the "square"? (An error I was sternly reminded of.)
Any better definitions would also be greatly appreciated.
Given an $m\times n$ matrix $A=(a_{ij})$ and a $k\times l$ matrix $B=(b_{uv})$ with entries in a commutative ring $R$.
The matrices $A,B$ are equal if the mappings $f:[m]\times [n]\rightarrow R: (i,j)\mapsto a_{ij}$ and $g:[k]\times [l]\rightarrow R: (u,v)\mapsto b_{uv}$ are equal. Equality of maps means equality of the corresponding relations (sets).
Practically, this means that $A,B$ are equal if $A,B$ have the same size $(m=k,n=l)$ and for each pair $(i,j)\in[m]\times [n]$, $a_{ij}=b_{ij}$.
Well, if $A$ is an $m\times n$ matrix, then the transposed $A^T$ is an $n\times m$ matrix. By the above definition, the equality $A=A^T$ means that $m=n$ and $a_{ij}=a_{ji}$.