This might be a very basic question for some of you. Indeed in $\textbf Z$, it's very easy. For example, $\textbf Z / \langle 2 \rangle$ consists of $\langle 2 \rangle$ and $\langle 2 \rangle + 1$. Obviously just two elements. In general, if $p$ is a positive prime in $\textbf Z$, then $\textbf Z / \langle p \rangle$ consists of one principal ideal and $p - 1$ cosets.
I guess it's also easy in imaginary quadratic integer rings, since we can visualize them in the complex plane, e.g., $\textbf Z[i] / \langle 1 + i \rangle$ consists of $\langle 1 + i \rangle$, $\langle 1 + i \rangle + 1$ and $\langle 1 + i \rangle + i$... wait a minute, three elements? I'm not sure that's quite right.
And I really have no idea how to go about, say, $\textbf Z[\sqrt{14}] / \langle 4 + \sqrt{14} \rangle$. To say nothing of something like $\textbf Z[\sqrt{10}] / \langle 2, \sqrt{10} \rangle$.
Given a ring $R$ of algebraic integers of degree $2$, and a prime ideal $\mathfrak P$, how do you determine how many elements there are in $R / \mathfrak P$?
For principal ideals, it's easy: if $L$ is a number field with ring of integers $\mathcal O_L$, and if $(a)$ is an ideal in $\mathcal O_L$, then the number of elements in $\mathcal O_L / (a)$ is $|N_{L / \mathbb Q} (a)|$, where $N_{L / \mathbb Q}(a)$ denotes the norm of the element $a$.
For a quadratic number field $\mathbb Q(\sqrt{d})$, the norm of an element $x + y \sqrt{d}$ is simply $x^2 - dy^2$.
So the number of elements in $\mathbb Z[\sqrt{14}] / (4 + \sqrt{14})$ is $| 4^2 - 14 \times 1^2 | = 2$.
Similarly, the number of elements in $\mathbb Z[i] / (1 + i)$ is $|1^2 + 1 \times 1^2 | = 2$. (You double counted: $1 + (1 + i)$ and $i + (1 + i)$ are the same thing, since $1 - i \in (1 + i)$ by virtue of the fact that $-i(1 + i) = 1 - i$.)
As for your final example, $\mathbb Z[\sqrt{10}] / (2, \sqrt{10})$, it might be easier to use an integral basis.
It is well known that $\{ 1, \sqrt{10} \}$ is an integral basis for $\mathbb Z[\sqrt{10}]$, which is to say that every element in $\mathbb Z[\sqrt{10}]$ can be written in the form $a + b\sqrt{10}$ for a unique choice of $a, b \in \mathbb Z$. Therefore, the elements in $(2, \sqrt{10})$ are precisely the elements of the form
$$ (u + v\sqrt{10})\times 2 +(w + z\sqrt{10})\times \sqrt{10} = (2u + 10z) + (2v + w) \sqrt{10}$$ where $u, v, w, z \in \mathbb Z$. And if you think about it, this includes precisely those elements $a + b \sqrt{10}$ in $ \mathbb Z[\sqrt{10}]$ where $a$ is even. Hence $\mathbb Z[\sqrt{10}] / (2, \sqrt{10})$ contains two cosets: $(2, \sqrt{10})$ and $1 + (2, \sqrt{10})$.
I hope these examples provide you with enough techniques to be getting on with....