$$\\A\mathbf v - \lambda \mathbf v=0$$ $$\\(A - \lambda) \mathbf v=0$$
since the equation looks like to be correct. how to explain that it is not? (without examples)
I know that$\ I$ makes no change for $\lambda \mathbf v$ and i only found unpersuasive explains like this one "We needed to do this because without it we would have had the difference of a matrix, A, and a constant, λ, and this can’t be done." can't we subtract a scalar from a matrix?
What you put in quotes is the explanation. Why try to do this without an example? $2 \times 2$ should be convincing, particularly if you note the ambiguity: perhaps "subtracting $\lambda$" should mean subtracting it from all four matrix entries, not just from the two on the diagonal. How would you distinguish?