Sorry if the question makes no sense, but I've always had a problem "feeling" semidirect products though I understand them.
Unlike direct products, I can easily point it out when I'm working with a group. This happens when some of the elements seem independent of other elements. Like when I'm adding complex numbers, I can see the imaginary part go with the imaginary part, and the real with the real. Or when multiplying, the magnitude multiplies by the magnitude, and the angle adds with the angle.
But I am not able to develope an intuitive feeling to know when a group is a semidirect product of 2 subgroups. The most thing I've went to so far is to see some elements independent but interact in special cases. Like in the dihedral group, where rotations are rotations, and a reflection is a reflection unless there are 2 reflections which might affect a rotation. But other than that, pointing a semidirect product is not as obvious as direct products. Can someone help me quickly notice when a group is a semidirect product of 2 subgroups?
You are asking how to recognize a group as being a semidirect product, rather than how to build new groups using the semidirect product construction.
Fact: a group $G$ is a semidirect product of two subgroups $H$ and $K$ if
(i) $G = HK$ (each element of $G$ has the form $hk$ for some $h \in H$ and $k \in K$),
(ii) $H \cap K = \{1\}$ (that makes the representation $g = hk$ unique),
and
(iii) $H$ or $K$ is a normal subgroup (it doesn't matter which one is normal since $HK = KH$ when either subgroup is normal, e.g., if $K \lhd G$ then $kh = h(h^{-1}kh)$, and $h^{-1}kh \in K$).
See Section 4, especially Theorem 4.1, here.
Example: Let $G = D_n$ and $H = \langle r\rangle$ be the subgroup of rotations. This has index $2$, so it's normal in $G$. A reflection $s$ in $G$ is outside of $H$ and has order $2$, so $H$ and $K := \langle s\rangle$ satisfy (i), (ii), and (iii). Thus $G$ is a semidirect product of $H$ and $K$.
This won't help you show a group is not a semidirect product of any two nontrivial subgroups, e.g., $Q_8$ (and more generally the generalized quaternion groups of order $2^n$ for $n \geq 3$) is not a semidirect product of two nontrivial subgroups. But that's not what you're asking about.