If we are given a curve in the form $$ax^2+2bxy+cy^2+2dx+2ey+f=0$$ and the following determinant $$\delta=\begin{vmatrix}a&b\\b&c\end{vmatrix}=ac-b^2$$ is non-zero, then this is either a curve of elliptic type (an ellipse, a point or an empty set/an imaginary ellipse) or a curve of hyperbolic type (a hyperbola or a pair of lines). So in these cases in makes sense to talk about center of the curve, i.e., the point with respect to which this curve is symmetric.
The center can be found as the solution of the following system of equations $$\begin{align*} ax+by+d&=0,\\ bx+cy+e&=0. \end{align*}$$ (This system has a unique solution, since the determinant of the matrix of this system is $\delta\ne0$.)
That means, the coordinates of the center can be computed as $$\begin{align*} x&=\frac{be-cd}\delta,\\ y&=\frac{bd-ae}\delta. \end{align*}$$
Several resources can be found where this way of finding center is described. (Often in the form of solving $\frac{\partial F}{\partial x}= \frac{\partial F}{\partial y} =0$, where $F(x,y)=ax^2+2bxy+cy^2+2dx+2ey+f$.)
How can these conditions for the center be derived? How can we show that the point fulfilling these equation indeed is the center of the conic section?






I would emphasize that a pure translation in the plane preserves the relationship between a figure and its center. Given $$ A x^2 + 2 B xy + C y^2 + 2 D x + 2 E y + F = 0 $$ and solving for $(x_0, y_0)$ in $$ A x_0 + B y_0 + D = 0, $$ $$ B x_0 + C y_0 + E = 0, $$ we introduce translated coordinates $(u,v)$ with $$ x = u + x_0, $$ $$ y = v + y_0. $$ I'm not sure how much I will type in, but the original equation
$$ A x^2 + 2 B xy + C y^2 + 2 D x + 2 E y + F = 0 $$ becomes $$ A u^2 + 2 B uv + C v^2 = \rm{constant.} $$ Regardless of what type of figure this might be, it is centrally symmetric in $(u,v)$ coordinates: if $(u,v)$ is a solution, so is $(-u,-v).$
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$$ A x^2 + 2 B xy + C y^2 + 2 D x + 2 E y + F = 0. $$
$$ x = u + x_0 $$ $$ y = v + y_0 $$
$$ x^2 = u^2 + 2 x_0 u + x_0^2 $$ $$ xy = uv + y_0 u + x_0 v + x_0 y_0 $$ $$ y^2 = v^2 + 2 y_0 v + y_0^2 $$
$$ A x^2 + 2 B xy + C y^2 = (A u^2 + 2B uv + C v^2) + (2Ax_0 + 2 B y_0) u + (2Bx_0 + 2 C y_0) v + (Ax_0^2 + 2B x_0 y_0 + C y_0^2) $$ $$ 2 D x + 2 E y + F = 2 D u + 2 E v + 2 D x_0 + 2 E y_0 + F $$ In the original $A x^2 + 2 B xy + C y^2 + 2 D x + 2 E y + F,$ the quadratic terms come out to $A u^2 + 2B uv + C v^2,$ as was guaranteed to happen for the highest degree terms. Next, we get $ (2Ax_0 + 2 B y_0 + 2 D)u, $ so that the coefficient of the linear term $u$ is actually $0.$ Also, $ (2Bx_0 + 2 C y_0 + 2 E)v , $ so that the coefficient of the linear term $u$ is actually $0.$ The constant term comes out to $$ Ax_0^2 + 2B x_0 y_0 + C y_0^2 + 2 D x_0 + 2 E y_0 + F $$ to which we say, Why Not? The whole thing is now $$ A u^2 + 2B uv + C v^2 + ( Ax_0^2 + 2B x_0 y_0 + C y_0^2 + 2 D x_0 + 2 E y_0 + F) = 0, $$ where the thing in parentheses is a constant. Let us give the constant a name, $ W = ( Ax_0^2 + 2B x_0 y_0 + C y_0^2 + 2 D x_0 + 2 E y_0 + F). $ So we get $$ A u^2 + 2B uv + C v^2 + W = 0 $$