I need help with b. Lets call the column vectors of the transformation matrix $w_1, w_2, w_3$. I can already see that $w_3 = \begin{bmatrix} 1\\ 2\\ 2 \end{bmatrix}$ or simply the norm. But I am struggling with $w_1$ and $w_2$. I got a hint that they are supposed to be parallel but I just simply can't see it. I mean $n*v=0$ gives me a random vector $v$ that is parallel to the plane, for example $\begin{bmatrix} -2\\ 1\\ 0\end{bmatrix}$. But when projected it is the same and not equal to $\begin{bmatrix} 0\\ 1\\ 0 \end{bmatrix}$
Also in this new basis? Wouldn't the plane's equation change, and thus its normal? I mean, don't we have to first find the plane in the new basis to do anything?

Take any two linearly independent vectors $w_1$ and $w_2$ from $>H$, such as $w_1=(-2,1,0)$ and $w_2=(-2,0,1)$. Then, if $w_3=(1,2,2)$, $\{w_1,w_2,w_3\}$ will be a basis such that $T(w_1)=w_1$, $T(w_2)=w_2$ and $T(w_3)=0$. So, the matrix of $T$ with respect to this basis will be$$\begin{bmatrix}1&0&0\\0&1&0\\0&0&0\end{bmatrix}.$$