I have this definitions in hands:
Definition 1: Let G be a group and $x$ an element (fixed!) of G. Given $h \in G$ the element $hxh^{-1}$ is called conjugated of $x$ through $h$.
Definition 2: The conjugates of a group G is the set $X=\{hxh^{-1}: h \in G\}$.
Definition 3: The group G acts transitively over a set of conjugates of $x$ taking $(g, hxh^{-1})$ to $ghxh^{-1}g^{-1}$. So, this is a left action of $G$ over $X$.
Definition 4: In this case the stabilizer of $x$ is $G_x=\{g \in G: gxg^{-1}=x\}=\{g \in G: gx=xg\}$ called the centralizer of $x$, written $C_G(x)$.
Your definitions involve the conjugation action. But it is natural to have $S_n$ act on $\{1,2,\dots,n\}$ just by $\pi\cdot x=\pi(x)$.
Now both myself and @MikeEarnest have pointed out that it's easy to see that this action is transitive.
Finally, you don't need the group to be abelian in order for it to act on a set.