For each of the following, state whether the relation is reflexive, symmetric, antisymmetric, transitive or an equivalence:
(i) R = { (a, a), (b, c), (c, b), (d, d) }
My answer:
It is not Reflexive.
It Symmetric.
[Anti-symmetric or not Anti-symmetric?]
Is not Transitive.
My lecturer gave me this formula where it shows,
Anti-Symmetric: (a, b) & (b, a), a=b
Not Anti-Symmetric: (a, b), (b, a), a≠b
I still do not know how to tell between these two.
The issue with telling if a relation is antisymmetric or not is that you're usually not looking at the relation as a subset of a set's product with itself. You're usually given a slightly more abstract formulation of the relation.
A relation $R$ would be anti-symmetric if, whenever $(a,b)$ and $(b,a)$ are in $R$, we have $a=b$.
In your proposed relation, the $(a,a),(d,d)$ pairings satisfy this trivially, but what about $(b,c)$ and $(c,b)$? It depends. Can we assume $b \ne c$? If so, it's not antisymmetric. Is there no reason to assume we cannot have $b=c$? If $b=c$, then it is symmetric.
However, if $b=c$, then we'd effectively have a repeat ordered pair in the set since $(b,c)=(c,b)$, which we usually don't like unless we're working with multi-sets or whatever. Plus why even state the problem like this because this is clearly ambiguous as heck.
Anecdotally, this would also mean the relation is reflexive and transitive if $b=c$.
So, to conclude a slightly long diatribe, my gut instinct is that $a,b,c,d$ are meant to be distinct, and thus $R$ is not anti-symmetric outright since $x = y$ (where $x,y \in \{a,b,c,d\}$) is never satisfied. But it's ambiguous and depends on the assumptions you're allowed to make.
A nice example to make a point out of what I meant by anti-symmetric being a more typical concern in more abstract formulations of relations: we say $a \mid b$ if and only if $a$ divides $b$. You can easily show from definition this is antisymmetric as a relation on the integers.
Suppose $a \mid b$ and $b \mid a$. Then $b = na$ and $a = mb$ for some integers $m,n$. But then that means $b=nmb$ or $a=mna$ by substitution of one into the other, so it has to hold that $m=n=1$. But then $b=a$.