Assuming I understand the question correctly,then we have to show that at least one number amongst $\vert f(1) \vert, \vert f(2) \vert, \vert f(3) \vert$ is greater than $\frac{1}{2}$. There are two ways of going about it.
(1) Proof by contradiction : We find a property that contradicts that all $\vert f(1) \vert, \vert f(2) \vert, \vert f(3) \vert$ are less than $\frac 12$. That is to say, we start out by stating that
$\vert f(1) \vert \lt 1/2, \vert f(2) \vert \lt 1/2, \vert f(3) \vert \lt 1/2$
And then by some property reach a contradiction. There are two hurdles I've struggled with this:
(a) ways to manipulate modularity (absolute values) $\vert f(1) \vert$ by not squaring
(b) finding the key property that leads to a contradiction.
(a)
$$\vert f(1) \vert \lt \frac{1}{2}$$
$$\vert f(2) \vert \lt \frac{1}{2}$$
$$\vert f(3) \vert \lt \frac{1}{2}$$
leads to
$$\vert 1+a+b \vert \lt \frac{1}{2}$$
$$\vert 4+2a +b \vert \lt \frac{1}{2}$$
$$\vert 9+3a+b \vert \lt \frac{1}{2}$$
At this point we can do as follows :
$$-\frac{1}{2}<1+a+b< \frac{1}{2}$$
$$-\frac{1}{2}<4+2a +b< \frac{1}{2}$$
$$-\frac{1}{2}<9+3a+b < \frac{1}{2}$$
Or
$$(1+a+b)^2 < \frac{1}{4}$$
$$(4+2a +b)^2< \frac{1}{4}$$
$$(9+3a+b)^2 < \frac{1}{4}$$
But then what is the property that helps to refute or induce a contradiction?
(2) Direct prove by case inspection.
At least one is not less than $\frac{1}{2}$
(a) Exactly one is greater than $\frac{1}{2}$, then $a=-3$ and $b=2$
(b) Exactly two are greater than $\frac{1}{2}$, then $a=3$ and $b=-4$
(c) All three are greater than $\frac{1}{2}$, then $a=-1$ and $b=4$.
Is $\mathrm{(2)}$ accurate solution? If so, how do we prove the question using method $\mathrm{(1)}$?
(2) fails because you have the implications backwards. You have shown that there are $a,b$ that result in each of the three cases, but you have not shown that for all $a,b$ the case of $0$ is not obtained.
Your statements that $$-\frac{1}{2}<1+a+b< \frac{1}{2}\\ -\frac{1}{2}<4+2a +b< \frac{1}{2}\\ -\frac{1}{2}<9+3a+b < \frac{1}{2}$$ are useful. If you subtract $b$ from everything you have that $1+a, 4+2a, \text { and } 9+3a$ are all in the same interval of length $1$. Use the first and third to set limits on $a$, then show the second is not in the interval.