Suppose Goldbach's conjecture $G$ is undecidable in first-order Peano arithmetic, $\sf{PA}$. That would mean there are models in which $G$ is true and other in which it is false. But intuitively, this would make $G$ "true" because there could not exist a counterexample proving $G$ false. Our intuition of "true arithmetic" can be formalized by fixing the model $\mathbb N$ in $\sf{ZFC}$ evaluating the truth of statements in $\mathbb N$. (Correct me if I'm wrong.)
So does this mean that $G$ is provably true in $\mathbb N$? This is where my understanding gets fuzzy. On the one hand, $\mathbb N$ is supposed to formalize our notion of "true" arithmetic, and since we can reason that undecidability $\implies$ true informally, I would expect this to translate into some formal statement about $\mathbb N$. On the other hand, I thought Gödel's incompleteness theorem carried more weight than "some statements about arithmetic are undecidable in $\sf{PA}$ and similar systems, so best to stick with $\mathbb N$ and then everything's fine."
Also, does the answer change if instead of merely assuming $G$ is undecidable, we assume it is provably undecidable (say, in $\sf{ZFC}$)?
If we could prove (in any given system) that $G$ is undecidable in PA, then we could prove there that it is true. But it is quite possible that $G$ happens to be undecidable (and true) but there is no proof of that fact.