In the Lagrange multiplier method, let us say we have a constraint $f(x) \le C$.
So we say setup the lagrange $L = ... -\lambda (C - f(x))$ where "..." contains the objective function.
My question is, let us say $\lambda$ in our optimal solution is really large. What does that tell us about the constraint?
It tells us nothing, really.
If the constraint is given by, say, $$ x^2+y^2-1=0 $$ you will get one value of $\lambda$. If you instead use $$ 2x^2+2y^2-2=0 $$ then you get a different value for $\lambda$. Continuing this way, you can make any non-zero value for $\lambda$ you want from the exact same constraint, just by expressing the constraint differently (as long as there is a non-zero value for $\lambda$ in the first place).