Another title for this question could be: where do inaccessible cardinals live? It may be that this question does not make any sense. So I will try to explain what I mean.
I think of the ZFC axioms as a recipe that allows us to structure the universe of sets in particularly nice way. Out of all the ways one could define a "collection of things" ZFC manages to pick out those "collections" which behave well. We call these collections sets. Using this recipe the collection of all sets can be bundled together into a proper class $V$ --- the von Neumann Universe.
Within $V$ we can pick out sets with particular properties. Of note there are ordinals and cardinals. Furthermore we can look at cardinals with particular properties; large cardinals and inaccessible cardinals in particular.
I guess I am adopting a Platonist view point when I ask the following questions:
(1) are the inaccessible cardinals in the class $V$?
(2) are these cardinals inaccessible in the sense that do not fit into the hierarchy of the von Neumann universe, $V$?
(3) are they inaccessible in the sense that the axioms of ZFC can't prove that they are in there?
(4) could it be that there are no cardinals with the added properties that make them inaccessible/large, but ZFC can't prove that this is the case?
Here is what I think: By definition they are particular types of cardinals i.e. particular types of sets. So they must be in $V$, right? I think inaccessible/large cardinals (if they exist) are sets (i.e. are in $V$) but ZFC fails to decide (i.e. is unable to access) whether or not there are any sets with these properties.
I am confused and would love to know what is really going on.
Thank you for persisting through my ramble :)