Question $$ \lim_{x \to 0}\frac{1}{x^2 + i x} $$
The related info (following solution and plot taken from Wolfram Alpha)
$$
\lim_{x \to 0^-}\frac{1}{x^2 + i x} = i \infty
$$
$$
\lim_{x \to 0^+}\frac{1}{x^2 + i x} = (-i) \infty
$$

Why is the real part being ignored here when in plot it can be clearly seen that the real part is converging to 1 and imaginary part is diverging?
In my opinion the limit should be either $1-(\infty)i$ or $1+(\infty)i$ depending on the side from which we approach. If not can you clear my doubt how can we neglect the real part present here?
Your opinion seems correct in one sense. I think the reason for the ambiguity is that in complex analysis, people usually only talk about one complex infinity (denoted just $\infty$ or $\hat\infty$). Here is the reasoning: multiplying your expression by the complex conjugate of the denominator, we get $$\frac1{x^2+ix}=\frac{x^2-ix}{x^4+x^2}=\frac1{x^2+1}-\frac i{x^3+x}.$$ From here one easily computes the limits of the real and imaginary parts. It is certainly correct to say the real part approaches $1$ and the imaginary part approaches $\mp\infty$ as $x\to0^{\pm}$.
However less common is another notion called directed infinity which asks in which direction in the complex plane the convergence occurs. This would be something in the form $z\infty$, meaning infinity in the direction of $\arg(z)$. This must be what Wolfram Alpha is telling you, since asymptotically $1\pm i\infty$ is parallel to the ray starting at $0$ passing through $\pm i$.