I know that the integers solutions of the equation: $$ n^2+n = 2x^2+2x $$ are
$$n = \frac{1}{4} (-(3 - 2 \sqrt{2})^m - \sqrt{2} (3 - 2 \sqrt{2})^m - (3 + 2 \sqrt{2})^m + \sqrt{2} (3 + 2 \sqrt{2})^m + 2),$$ $$x = \frac{1}{8} (2 (3 - 2 \sqrt{2})^m + \sqrt{2} (3 - 2 \sqrt{2})^m + 2 (3 + 2 \sqrt{2})^m - \sqrt{2} (3 + 2 \sqrt{2})^m + 4),$$
$m \in \mathbb{Z}, m\ge0$
but I don't understand how.
Someone can point me in the right direction to solve this problem.
One way is to set $m=2n+1$ and $y=2x+1$ and get the equivalent Pell equation $m^2=2y^2-1$.
The fundamental solution is $m=1, y=1$ and the general solution comes from the odd powers of $1+\sqrt2$. You go from one solution to another by multiplying by $(1+\sqrt2)^2=3+2\sqrt2$. This gives $$ \pmatrix{ m_{k+1} \\ y_{k+1}} = \pmatrix{ 3 & 4 \\ 2 & 3} \pmatrix{ m_{k} \\ y_{k}}, \qquad \pmatrix{ m_{0} \\ y_{0}} =\pmatrix{ 1 \\ 1} $$ whose eigenvalues are $3 \pm 2 \sqrt2$. The general solution is a linear combination of powers of these eigenvalues.
You can avoid eigenvalues etc by considering the powers of $1-\sqrt2$, which helps extract both parts.