consider the function $f(x,y)=\frac{xy}{(x^2+y^2)^2}$, we can see by some easy calculation that $\int_{-1}^1\int_{-1}^1 f(x,y)\,dx\, dy$ and $\int_{-1}^1\int_{-1}^1 f(x,y)\,dy\, dx$ exist and equals $0$.
but the function is not integrable over the square $-1<x<1 , -1<y<1 $.i must prove this.i think it is because in a small neighborhood of $0$,the function grows really fast.can some one help me to write this imagination in detail?
$f(x,y)$ is positive in the first and third quadrants and negative in the second and fourth. One would need to show that the integral over the first and third quadrants $\text{is }{+\infty}$, and then by an easy symmetry argument, it follows that the integral over the second and fourth quadrants $\text{is }{-\infty}$. Let's look at $$ \iint_R f(x,y)\,d(x,y) $$ where $R$ is a small quarter-disk of radius $r_1\le 1$ in the first quadrant with the center of the whole disk at $(0,0)$. $$ \iint_R f(x,y)\,d(x,y) = \int_0^{\pi/2} \int_0^{r_1} \frac{r^2\cos\theta\sin\theta}{r^4} r\,dr\,d\theta = \int_0^{\pi/2} \sin(2\theta)\,d\theta\cdot\int_0^{r_1} \frac{dr} r = \infty. $$