1.Suppose we the PDE $u_{x}(x,y)=u_{y}(x,y)$. Does this simply mean we are looking for a function whos partial w.r.t $x$ and $y$ are the same att every point and then we have some additional boundary condition to get some kind of uniqueness?
2.Which in turn means that the graph of the function i.e the surface in $\mathbb{R}^{3}$ have some kind of symmetry?
3.When we have ODEs it is clear that the derivative at each point characterize the function, I have a hard time seeing the same or something similar in this case. What would be the analogy for PDE?
The fact that $u_x=u_y$ implies that $u$ is constant along all the straight lines of the form $$x+y=c.$$ Indeed, set $$ f(t)=u(t,c-t), $$ which describes how $f$ looks like along $x+y=c$. Then $$ f'(t)=u_x(t,c-t)-u_y(t,c-t)=0. $$ Hence $u$ is constant along such straight lines, and therefore $$ u(x,y)=g(x+y). $$