My question is quite simple, It seems every non-empty set is a pointed set, only we have to do is choice some element to be the distinguished element, am I right? I'm looking for non-empty sets which aren't pointed sets.
EDIT
I think I didn't express myself clear, my question is can every set be transformed into a pointed set, just picking up a point to be the distinguished point?
Thanks in advance
A non-empty set is not a pointed set until you actually pick a point in it. The pointed set is the combination of a set and a particular element in it.
So $\{1,2\}$ is not a pointed set, but $\langle \{1,2\},1\rangle$ and $\langle\{1,2\},2\rangle$ are two different pointed sets that can be made from it.
And if somebody talks about "pointed sets" rather than just "nonempty sets", it must be because exactly that difference is important to them in the context!