Is the following subset of $\mathbb{R}^2$ closed?
$$A=\left\{(x,\ y)\in\mathbb{R}^2 \mid \left(\frac x3\right)^2+\left(\frac y5\right)^2=1\right\}$$
My solution:
This is an ellipse. We need to check that it contains all its limit points.
For that, we first need to locate the limit points. Consider the euclidean metric $d$ on $\mathbb{R}^2$.
Let $(a,\ b)$ be a point that does not lie on the ellipse. Let the minimum distance from $(a,\ b)$ to $A$ be $\epsilon>0$. Consider $B_d((a,\ b),\ \epsilon)$. This is a neigborhood of $(a,\ b)$ that does not intersect $A$. So, $(a,\ b)$ is not a limit point of $A$.
Let $(c,\ d)$ be a point that lies on the ellipse. I think every neighborhood of $(c,\ d)$ intersects $A$ in some point other than $x$ itself, but I don't know how to prove it.
Please help.
Shorter method - $F(x,y):=(x/3)^2+(y/5)^2$ is smooth(in particular continuous) and $A = F^{-1}(\{1\}).$
Alternatively, roughly in the spirit of your attempt: Suppose $(a_n,b_n)$ is a sequence in $A$ converging in $\mathbb R^2$ to some point $(a,b)$. Then $\lim_{n\to\infty} a_n, \lim_{n\to\infty} b_n$ exist and are equal to $a,b$ respectively, so we are allowed to take $n\to\infty$ in $$ (a_n/3)^2+(b_n/5)^2 = 1$$ to see that $$ (a/3)^2+(b/5)^2 = 1$$ which precisely means that $(a,b) \in A$, as needed.
Alternatively, exactly what you were trying to do: Suppose $\mathbf x$ is a point not on the ellipse. If $d(\mathbf x,A)=0$, then the definition of an infimum allows us to construct a sequence of points in $A$ converging to $\mathbf x$. By the computation in the second proof above, this would imply that $\mathbf x \in A$, a contradiction. Hence $d(\mathbf x,A) > 0$, and $\mathbf x$ is not a limit point of $A$.
If $\mathbf x$ is a point on the ellipse, you can check that $F\in C^1$ satisfies the conditions of the Implicit Function Theorem (or just use the correct formula, depending on $\mathbf x$, out of $a = ± 3\sqrt{1-(b/5)^2}$, $b = ± 5\sqrt{1-(a/3)^2}$) to see that we always have a continuous curve of points in $A$ in any neighbourhood around $\mathbf x$, so that $\mathbf x$ is indeed a limit point of $A$. Hence $A$ is the set of its own limit points, so that $A = \bar A$, giving the result.