Is the "set" of all sets which contain $1$ a set under ZF?
It does not contain itself, as it contains sets which contain $1$, but does not contain $1$ itself (as $1$ is not a set which contains $1$), and this has been the cause of a "failure to be a set" in all the cases that I've considered.
What axiom(s) of ZF is violated, if any, and why?
Such a class is as large as the class of all sets (and hence is not a set), because for each set $S$ it contains $S\cup\{ 1\}$, and hence it can be bijected with the sets $\not\owns 1$. If they lived in a set, and our original class were a set too, we would have identified two sets whose union is the class of all sets.