I am trying the understand the spectral theorem as given in wikipedia link:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spectral_theorem
I understand that eigenvectors are vectors and unitary operator is a matrix. My question is: for a positive definite matrix $A=UDU^H$ is the set of eigenvectors $U$ is unitary? In the above equation $D$ is a diagonal matrix of eigenvalues. Can we form a general relation between set of eigenvectors of an operator to unitary operator?
Look at the section on that page regarding "Normal Operators" (Normal operators include Self-Adjoint operators. There it is stated that "$A$ is normal if and only if there exists a unitary matrix $U$ such that $$A=U D U^*$$
So the spectral theorem directly addresses your question in that it is saying: You can diagonalize with a Unitary matrix precisely when the matrix is Normal.
Regarding positive definite matrices. If a matrix is positive-definite, then it is Self-Adjoint. You can find a proof of that in this MSE thread. So then, for a positive definite matrix, you can find a unitary matrix $U$ that diagonalizes it.
Proof Complex positive definite => self-adjoint