An $A$-element $x$ of $X$, written $x\in_A X$, is a map $x:A\to X$. If $f$ is a map with domain $X$, and $x\in_A X$ is an element, we write $f(x)$ to denote the composite of $f$ and $x$.
Now say that a map $f:X\to Y$ is cool if $$\forall A\quad \forall x, x'\in_A X\quad:\quad f(x) = f(x')\implies x = x'.$$
In the category of sets, a map is cool if and only if it is injective! In an arbitrary category, a map is cool if and only it is an monomorphism!
Call a map $f : X\to Y$ fresh if for all $A$, and for all $y\in_A Y$, there is an $x\in_A X$ such that $f(x) = y$. It would now be quite nice if, in the category of sets, a map is fresh if and only if it is surjective. 1. Is this true? 2. Also, in an arbitrary category, is a map fresh if and only if it is an epimorphism?
If $f$ is "fresh", then there is a particularly interesting element you can consider in $Y$ : the $Y$-element $id_Y:Y\to Y$. Now freshness of $f$ tells you that there must be some $s\in_Y X$, thus a map $s:Y\to X$, such that $f(s)=id_Y$, i.e. $f\circ s =id_Y$. In other words, $f$ has a right inverse; it is a split epimorphism.
Conversely, if $f$ is a split epimorphism with right inverse $s$, then for all $y\in_A Y$, $s(y)\in_A X$ is such that $f(s(y))=y$, thus $f$ is fresh. Thus what you call "fresh" is equivalent to being a split epimorphism. Now in the category of sets, being a split epimorphism is equivalent to being surjective (this is one possible way to state the axiom of choice), so the answer to your first question is yes. But in general being a split epimorphism is a stronger property : for example, the quotient map $\Bbb Z\to \Bbb Z/n\Bbb Z$ is an epimorphism but not a split one in the category of groups.