I have no problem understanding the single variable derivative:
$$f'(x) = \lim_{h\to 0}\frac{f(x+h)-f(x)}{h}$$
As this is merely a case of:
$$\text{rate of change} = \frac{\Delta y}{\Delta x}$$
Where $\Delta x$ masquerades as $h$ and becomes vanishingly small. The above formula is the only reason I understand why there's an $h$ in the denominator. Technically, $h$ tending to zero should make $f'(x)$ tend to infinity in my mind, which is a bit of shakiness in my head that I've never worked out but I can understand it still from the previous few sentences.
However, when then learning of the limit definition of a partial derivative, I lose the rate of change equation to justify the $h$ on the denominator.
$$\frac{\partial f}{\partial x} = \lim_{h\to 0}\frac{f(\mathbf x+h)-f(\mathbf x)}{h}$$
I'm perfectly fine with the numerator, but I now can no longer justify the $h$ in the denominator. It would make more sense to me if it was merely $$\frac{\partial f}{\partial x} = \lim_{h\to 0}h(f(\mathbf x+h)-f(\mathbf x))$$, or $$\frac{\partial f}{\partial x} = \lim_{h\to \infty}\frac{f(\mathbf x+h)-f(\mathbf x)}{h}$$.
$$ \frac{\partial f}{\partial x} = \lim_{h\to 0}\frac{f(\mathbf x+h)-f(\mathbf x)} h $$ You shouldn't be "perfectly fine with the numerator" in this. Your notation needs to make clear that $h$ is added to just one of the independent variables, and it needs to say which one.
You have $$ \frac{\partial f}{\partial x} = \lim_{h\,\to\,0} \frac{f(s,t,u,\ldots, x+h,\ldots,z) - f(s,t,u,\ldots,x,\ldots, z)} h $$ i.e. you need to make it clear that the $h$ is added only to $x$ and not to any of the other variables upon which $f$ depends.
In slighlty more convnetional notation, $$ \frac{\partial f}{\partial x_k} = \lim_{h\,\to\,0} \frac{f(x_1,\ldots,x_{k-1},\,\, x_k + h,\,\, x_{k+1}, \ldots, x_n) - f(x_1,\ldots,x_k,\ldots, x_n)} h. $$ The "$h$" appears in both the numerator and the denominator because $h= \Delta x_k.$ It is the amount by which $x_k$ changes.
Your notation needs to make clear that $h$ is added to just one of the independent variables, and it needs to say which one.