If $V$ is a inner product space and $x,y\in V$, why is $\langle x,y \rangle = 0$ equivalent to say that for every $\alpha\in\Bbb R$, $|x|\le|x+\alpha y|$?
I understand that $\langle x,y \rangle = 0$ leads to $|x|\le|x+\alpha y|$ but not the opposite.
Note that for $\langle x,y\rangle\ne 0$ ( and hence $|y|\ne 0$), $$ |x+\alpha y|^2-|x|^2=2\alpha \langle x,y\rangle +\alpha^2|y|^2=\left(|y|\alpha+\frac{\langle x,y\rangle}{|y|}\right)^2-\frac{\langle x,y\rangle^2}{|y|^2}$$ will be negative for suitable $\alpha$.