While playing with findstat.org, I noticed the following coincidence:
The number of leaf labelled unordered rooted binary trees with $n+1$ leaves $\{1,\dots,n+1\}$, with the leaf labelled $1$ at distance $k$ to the root (http://findstat.org/St001041)
equals
the number of perfect matchings of $\{1,\dots,2n\}$ with $k$ terminal closers (http://findstat.org/St000838).
The distribution of these numbers is given at http://oeis.org/A102625, and I expect that a computational proof would not be very hard to find.
However, I am interested in a bijective proof.
UPDATE: belated, I should mention that I eventually found a bijective proof but only have a rather brief writeup currently.
I unfortunately got stuck, but I am leaving my work here anyway in case it helps someone else. Happy to delete this if the community feels it is not worthy of being an answer.
Your first link references a book that provides a bijection between the following two sets.
Note that a binary tree with $n+1$ leaves will have $2n$ non-root nodes, which hints that the above bijection involves labeling of the non-root nodes of a tree. Indeed, this is what the book describes.
I will defer the details to the book, but roughly the bijection is as follows. Take a binary tree with $n+1$ labeled leaves. We will label the remaining non-root nodes with $n+2,\ldots,2n$ in the following way.
Then to convert these node labelings to a matching on $\{1, \ldots, 2n\}$, just take each pair of sibling nodes' labels as a pair in your matching.
Here is an example from the book, when $n=6$. Try starting with only the $7$ leaves labeled, and then complete the labeling for the rest of the non-root nodes.
Note that one needs to check this is a bijection; I will not do so here.
Now, let us consider your original question, which asks for a bijection between the following two sets.
Unfortunately, the above bijection does not immediately solve the problem. For example, the matching $(1,2),(3,4),(5,6)$ has one terminal closer, but in the corresponding tree given by the bijection, leaf $1$ is distance $2$ from the root.
Thus, I suspected one can find some intermediate bijection that, when combined with the tree-matching bijection described above, will produce your desired bijection of these last two sets. But I was unsuccessful in actually finding one that worked.
Some closing remarks and possible bijection building-blocks: