I'd like to express 'unlike, differing from', in the most 'academic/professional' fashion using logic symbol(s) or mathematical operators. The descriptions of the corresponding Unicode block seem to show that there's not one symbol for it.
Maybe it's more of a formal semantic/linguistic issue, if so please let me know.
Example: Unlike set B, set A contains X (or X belongs to A).
How you interpret 'unlike' can really change depending on the context. For example, if I say that 'set A is unlike set B', then I would probably take this as a simple $A \not = B$. But with your example, we mean something more specific, namely that set $B$ is not like set $A$ in this particular respect. So, I think at the very least your desired operator $*$ would have to take this 'in this particular respect' into account. So we'd be looking for something like:
$*(x,y,\phi(z))$ if and only if $\phi(x) \land \neg \phi(y)$
(that is, one of $x$ and $y$ has property $\phi(z)$ while the other does not ... I think it would be handy to make this symmetric as far as the first two arguments go)
which I suppose would make it a second-order logic operator.
So, for your example, we could use this operator and say that $*(B,A,X \in z)$
Well, I have not seen anything like this, but it could be useful, sure! (though of course, why not just say $X \in B \land \neg X \in A$ ?)