What are some basic math facts (say, secondary or early undergraduate level) that somehow went unnoticed by you for a long time, and when you realized they made you wonder how you could have missed something that obvious for all those years?
Some of my examples:
- The geometric meaning of $b$ in a quadratic $f(x)=ax^2+bx+c$: It is the slope of the tangent at $x=0$.
- Combinatorial interpretation of $0!=1$: There is exactly $1$ way to rearrange $0$ objects - do nothing.
- A median in a triangle bisects the triangle into two parts of equal area.
- Bicentricity of quadrilaterals: A square it not the only quadrilateral that has both an incircle and a circumcircle. (This is also true for e.g. some symmetric trapezoids.)
Early on in my math education, I memorized formulas for Euclidean distance and the equation of a circle in the $xy$-plane. I did not realize until later that the Euclidian distance formula follows directly from the pythagorean theorem applied in the $xy$-plane; nor that the equation for a circle with radius $r$ centered at $(a,b)$ in the $xy$-plane $$(x-a)^2+(y-a)^2=r^2$$ is equivalent to the formula for the Euclidean distance of $r$ from points $(x,y)$ to a fixed center $(a,b)$ $$r=d(x,y)=\sqrt{(x-a)^2+(y-b)^2}\text{.}$$ This is sad because the concept presents a great teaching moment. What is a circle? Well, it's a collection of points that are all the same distance from some center point. What do we mean by the word "point"? What do we mean when we by the word "distance"? Students can learn how precise mathematical definitions can be used to come up with an algebraic equation completely describing a geometric object. $$$$
As a totally different kind of example, you might be asked to balance a chemical equation in a high school chemistry class. For example, find the coefficients A, B, and C that balance the reaction $$A\text{H}_2 + B\text{O}_2 \to C\text{H}_2 \text{O}$$ Applying conservation of mass, this question is described by the linear system $$A\begin{pmatrix}2\\0\end{pmatrix} + B \begin{pmatrix}0\\2\end{pmatrix} =C\begin{pmatrix}2\\1\end{pmatrix}\text{.}$$ So, the question can be answered by solving the underdetermined linear system $$\begin{pmatrix}2&0&-2\\0&2&-1\end{pmatrix}\begin{pmatrix}A\\B\\C\end{pmatrix}=\begin{pmatrix}0\\0\\0\end{pmatrix}$$