Is is true that given an inner product space $ \left\langle -,- \right\rangle $, there's a matrix $A$ such that $ \left\langle u,v \right\rangle =\left\langle Au,Av \right\rangle _\mathbb{R^n}$? I thought of taking $A$ to be the Gramian but am not sure this holds...
Edit. Okay, I understand I wrote nonsense. I tried to generalize an exercise before solving. I'm supposed to prove that on $V=\mathbb R^2$, given some inner product there's an invertible matrix $A$ such that $ \left\langle u,v \right\rangle =\left\langle Au,Av \right\rangle _\mathbb{R^n}$ where the right inner product is the standard one. How can I prove this?
The expression $Au$ doesn't make sense as $u$ is an abstract vector and $A$ is a matrix. The Gramian matrix $G(\beta)$ is the matrix representing the inner product (as a quadratic form) with respect to the basis $\beta$. Then we have
$$ \left <v, w \right>_V = [v]_{\beta}^T G(\beta) [w]_{\beta} = \left< G(\beta) [v]_{\beta}, [w]_{\beta} \right>_{\mathbb{R}^n} = \left< [v]_{\beta}, G(\beta) [w]_{\beta} \right>_{\mathbb{R}^n} $$
where $\left< \cdot, \cdot \right>_{\mathbb{R}^n}$ is the standard inner product on $\mathbb{R}^n$. Since $G(\beta)$ is self-adjoint and positive-definite, it has a unique self-adjoint positive-definite root and so you can also write
$$ \left< v, w \right>_V = \left< \sqrt{G(\beta)}[v]_{\beta}, \sqrt{G(\beta)}[w]_{\beta} \right>_{\mathbb{R}^n} $$
which is closer in spirit to what you wrote (with $A = \sqrt{G(\beta)}$).