I wrote down this definition during the lesson:
Let $\langle P, \leq_P\rangle$ and $\langle Q, \leq_Q\rangle$ be two posets.
A function $f: P \rightarrow Q$ is
- monotonic, if $x \leq_P y \implies f(x) \leq_Q f(y)$;
- order-embedding, if $x \leq_P y \iff f(x) \leq_Q f(y)$.
Of course, an order-embedding is also a monotonic function but I'm trying to show a monotonic function which is not an order-embedding (and so far, I wasn't able to find one).
Let $P$ consist of two non-comparable elements, and let $Q$ consist of two comparable elements. Each of the bijections from $P$ to $Q$ is monotonic, and neither is an order-embedding. Thus, the two are not equivalent even for bijections.