Let $\alpha$ be primitive element of GF(7). Then order of $\alpha$ is 6, i.e. $o(\alpha)=6$. Now we know that $\alpha^4$ is not equal to 1, and that $o(\alpha^4)$ = $\frac{6}{gcd(6,4)}$. This also can be written as $gcd(6,4)=\frac{6}{o(\alpha^4)}$. This means that $\frac{6}{o(\alpha^4)}$ divides 4.
Now we can write $\alpha^4=\alpha^{Q\frac{6}{o(\alpha^4)}}=(\alpha^6)^{\frac{Q}{o(\alpha^4)}}=1$!!
I am getting this confusion. I might be making an error I am not aware of, it will help if you can look over this and point me in the right direction.
You may be making this a bit more complicated than it actually is. The primitive element $\alpha$ generates a cyclic group of order $6$: $$ \big\langle \alpha \big\rangle = \big\{ 1, \alpha, \alpha^2, \ldots, \alpha^5 \big\} \cong C_6 $$
Now, you seem to be interested in the element $\beta = \alpha^4$ and its order in $GF(7)^\times$. Look at some powers: $$ \begin{align} \beta^2 &= \left( \alpha^4 \right)^2 = \alpha^8 = \alpha^2 \\ \beta^3 &= \beta \beta^2 = \alpha^4 \alpha^2 = \alpha^6 = 1 \end{align} $$
This explicit calculation shows that $$ o(\beta) = o(\alpha^4) = 3. $$
Alternatively, you can arrive at this order by applying the formula: $$ o(\alpha^4) = \frac{6}{\gcd(6, 4)} = \frac{6}{2} = 3. $$