Let $N(P_1 \cap P_2)$ be the intersection of 2 p-Sylow, $P_1$ and $P_2$. I have 2 questions (which I put in a single question here because connected, and I tried to prove the last one).
First of all, given a group, is the intersection between p-Sylows always the same? (isomorphically) So if for instance I find two 2-Sylows of cardinality 8 whose intersection is a $\mathbb{Z}_2$, do I have that every intersection of every 2-Sylow is isomorphic to $\mathbb{Z}_2$? I had thought that if the action on the set of p-Sylow is double transitive then it's trivial, but is there some weaker criterion?
Then I was wondering if given the example above it is always true that $P_1<N(P_1 \cap P_2)$, because my teacher once used this fact, but I am not sure if it is a general property or it worked only in the specific case. I have thought that since the conjugate of $P_1$ by the action of $P_1$ is itself, then the elements of $P_1 \cap P_2$ are bound to go on $P_1$, and so $P_2$ is bound to go on a $P_k$ whose intersection with $P_1$ is again $P_1 \cap P_2$. Would this be enough to prove that we always have $P_1<N(P_1 \cap P_2)$?
The intersection of Sylow $p$-subgroups does not have to be the same. Let $F = \mathbb{Z}/p\mathbb{Z}$, and let $G = \textrm{GL}_3(F)$, the group of $3$ by $3$ matrices with entries in $F$ whose determinant is nonzero. The order of $G$ is $$p^3(p-1)(p^2-1)(p^3-1)$$
which shows you that the subgroup
$$P = \{ \begin{pmatrix} 1 & a & b \\ 0 & 1 & c \\ 0 & 0 & 1 \end{pmatrix} : a, b ,c \in F\}$$
of order $p^3$ is a Sylow $p$-subgroup of $G$. Let
$$w_0 = \begin{pmatrix} 0 & 0 & 1 \\ 0 & 1 & 0 \\ 1 & 0 & 0 \end{pmatrix}$$
$$w = \begin{pmatrix} 0 & 1 & 0 \\ 1 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 1 \end{pmatrix}$$
Then let
$$P_1 := w_0Pw_0^{-1} = \{\begin{pmatrix} 1 & 0 & 0 \\ a & 1 & 0 \\ b & c & 1 \end{pmatrix} \}$$
$$P_2 = wPw^{-1} = \{ \begin{pmatrix} 1 & 0 & c \\ a & 1 & b \\ 0 & 0 & 1 \end{pmatrix}\}$$
So we have three Sylow $p$-subgroups $P, P_1 , P_2$, with $P \cap P_1$ trivial, but $P \cap P_2$ has order $p^2$. I'm not sure about your question with the normalizer, I'll have to think about it more.