How can i easily determine the order of $$ [3] \in \mathbb{F}_{11}^\times $$
By the way: $\mathbb{F}_{11}^\times =\mathbb{F}_{11}\setminus \{[0]\}$.
Fermat's little theorem states that the order of a group element has to be a divisor of $p-1$ if $p$ is prime. Thus it should be $1, 2, 5$ or 10.
From
$$
3² = 9 \equiv 9 \mod 11 \\
3^3 = 27 \equiv 5 \mod 11 \\
3^4 = 81 \equiv 4 \mod 11 \\
3^5 = 243 \equiv 1 \mod 11
$$
we see that $ord([3])=5$.
Is this correct?
and is there any faster way to "see" that without calculating it?
Your answer is correct.
Hint for a faster way: $5^2\equiv3\mod11$, and by Fermat's little theorem $5^{10}\equiv1\mod11.$