Could you tell me how to prove that in $SL_2({\mathbb{F}_q})$ the only element of even order is $-I$ ($ \ I$ - identity matrix)?
I would really appreciate a thorough explanation, because I cannot find anything on my own.
Here, page 29, is why I'm asking.
Not true. Take $q = 5$, for instance, then $$ \begin{bmatrix} 2 & 0\\ 0 & 3 \end{bmatrix} $$ has order $4$.
More generally, your group has order $$ \frac{(q^2 -1) (q^2 - q)}{q-1} = (q-1) q (q+1), $$ so for $q$ odd you see a Sylow $2$-subgroup has order at least $8$.
(I'm only thinking of elements of order a power of $2$, then see user53845's answer.)
The real question appears to be that $-I$ is the unique element of order $2$. Such an element must have two eigenvalues equal to $-1$, and then $$ \begin{bmatrix} -1 & 1\\ 0 & -1 \end{bmatrix}^{2} = \begin{bmatrix} 1 & -2\\ 0 & 1 \end{bmatrix} \ne I. $$ ($q$ odd assumed throughout, see the post of Marc van Leeuwen.)