I know that this has been discussed a lot but I couldnt find something that really helps me out. I am new to differential geometry and I try to understand the following.
Definition: Let $M$ be a smooth manifold with chart $(U,x)$ around $p$ \begin{align} \left.\dfrac{\partial}{\partial x^i}\right|_p :C^\infty_p(M,\mathbb{R}) \ni f \rightarrow \left.\dfrac{\partial(f\circ x^{-1})}{\partial x^i}\right|_{x(p)}\in\mathbb{R} \end{align} are real tangent vectors for $i=1,\ldots,\text{dim}(M)$
First of all: Why do we define the partial derivative evaluated at $p$ in this strange way? How can one check if this acutally satisfies the Leibnitz-Rule? In the skript I found it just says that this is easy to see. Sorry for this beginner question, but I am not really experienced as you might see.
The partial derivative is defined that way because it is easier. To see this, imagine if you were the first one to define partial differentiation on a manifold. You know a lot about partial derivatives in ${R}^n$ and are used to it. You have also a map from your manifold to ${R}^n$ thanks to charts (i.e. your coordinates). Since you already have a connection with your manifold and ${R}^n$, you realise you can just take the derivative of your function on ${R}^n$ using your chart! The formula basically says, if you want to take derivative of a function on a manifold, just evaluate it at ${R}^n$ using your coordinates and take that function's derivative where you know already a lot about differentiation. This definition essentially removes the necessity to create a new notion of derivative and use your earlier results for flat spaces!
Seen this way, it is apparent why it satisfies Leibniz rule. You know it is obeyed on ${R}^n$ and since you take the derivative on ${R}^n$ (specifically on your chart) and not on your manifold, you can reuse your results for ${R}^n$!