I'm trying to show: $\displaystyle \frac{\partial} {\partial t}( \nabla(\phi))= \nabla\frac{\partial \phi} {\partial t} $
Am I allowed to write:
$\displaystyle \frac{\partial} {\partial t}\begin{bmatrix} \frac{\partial\phi} {\partial x}\\\ \frac{\partial\phi} {\partial y}\\\ \frac{\partial\phi} {\partial z} \end{bmatrix}=\displaystyle \begin{bmatrix} \frac{\partial^2\phi} {\partial t\partial x}\\\ \frac{\partial^2\phi} {\partial t\partial y}\\\ \frac{\partial^2\phi} {\partial t\partial z} \end{bmatrix}$
I think it is correct. $$ \frac{\partial}{\partial t} \nabla \phi = \partial_t \sum_i e_i \partial_i \phi =^{(*)} \sum_i e_i \partial_t \partial_i \phi $$ writing $\partial_t = \partial / \partial t$, $\partial_i = \partial / \partial x_i$, for some basis vectors $e_i$.
Your second equation corresponds to $(*)$.
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