I'd like to show that $Cov(aX+b, Y+Z)=aCov(X,Y)+aCov(X,Z)$.
Therefore I use:
- $Cov(X,Y)=E(XY)-E(X)\cdot E(Y)$.
So $Cov(aX+b, Y+Z)=$
$=E[(aX+b)(Y+Z)]-E(aX+b)E(Y+Z)$
$=E(aXY+aZ+bEY+bEZ)-[(aEX+b)(EY+EZ)]$
$=aE(XY)+aEZ+bEY+bEZ-[aEXEY+aEXEZ+bEY+bEZ]$
?? I can't use that $X, Y$ are independent; if they were, then $EXEY=E(XY)$.
What I want to show in the end is:
$... = aE(XY)-a(EX)(EY)+aE(XZ)-a(EX)(EY)$, right?
Your line $$E(aXY+aZ+bEY+bEZ)-[(aEX+b)(EY+EZ)]$$ has a mistake: it should be $$E(aXY+a\color{red}{XZ}+bEY+bEZ)-[(aEX+b)(EY+EZ)]\tag1$$ After you fix this, you should be able to collect terms properly: $$ \begin{align} (1)&=aE(XY)+aEXZ+bEY+bEZ-[aEXEY+aEXEZ+bEY+bEZ]\\ &=aE(XY)-aEXEY +aEXZ-aEXEZ \end{align} $$ since the terms $bEY$ and $bEZ$ drop out.