Is it true a proposition for $3 \times 3$ real matrices $A$ that if for a some nonzero vector $v$ we have $Av \neq v$ and at the same time $(A^TA)v=v$ then for any vector $u$ from $\mathbb{R}^3$ we have $(A^TA)u=u$ (i.e. $A$ is orthogonal) ?
Do we need assumption about full rank of the matrix $A$ for this goal ?
Can we extend the proposition for bigger dimensions ?
Your claim fails even if $A$ is of full rank: for example, consider $$A=\begin{bmatrix}-1&0&0 \\ 0&2&0\\ 0&0&1\end{bmatrix}\text{ and } \mathbf{v} = \begin{bmatrix} 1\\0\\0\end{bmatrix}.$$ Then $A^TA = A^2$ and you can easily find $\mathbf{u}$ such that $A^TA\mathbf{u}\neq\mathbf{u}$.