Problem:
Let $m, n \in \mathbb{N}$. Show that $\lim_{(x, y) \to (0, 0)} \frac{x^{m}y^{m}}{x^{2} + y^{2}}$ exists if and only if $m + n > 2$.
My try:
I'm really not too sure about how to prove this statement, but I think I can prove the forwards direction as follows:
I will show that if the limit exists, then we have $m + n > 2$; or equivalently, if $m + n \leq 2$, then the limit doesn't exist.
If $m + n \leq 2$ we must have $(m, n) = (1, 1)$. Then
$$\lim_{(x, y) \to (0, 0)} \frac{xy}{x^2 + y^2}.$$
Let $\{1/k, 1/k\}$ be a sequence converging to $(0, 0)$. Then
$$\lim_{(x, y) \to (0, 0)} = \frac{1}{k^2} \cdot \frac{k^2}{2} = 0.5,$$
but the sequence $\{1/k, 0\}$ also converges to $(0, 0)$ and
$$\lim_{(x, y) \to (0, 0)} 0 = 0, $$
and this gives two limit points, which cannot be true.
I'm not sure how to prove the other direction. Can anyone please help me?
Your forward direction is fine, assuming that you don't think $0$ is a natural number. If you do, then a minor modification of your approach will take care of things.
For the converse direction, try working in polar coordinates. For example,
$$\frac{x^3 y^4}{x^2 + y^2} = r^5 \cos^3 \theta \sin^4 \theta.$$
The condition $m + n > 2$ should be readily apparent.
Alternatively, use the AM-GM inequality. Note that
$$x^2 + y^2 = 2 \frac{x^2 + y^2}{2} \ge 2 \sqrt{x^2 y^2} = 2 |x| |y|$$
is strong enough to give
$$\left|\frac{x^m y^n}{x^2 + y^2}\right| \le \frac 1 2 |x|^{m - 1} |y|^{n - 1}.$$