$1.$ $I= \{(a,b) : 7\mid a, 7\mid b\} \subseteq \mathbb{Z}\bigoplus \mathbb{Z}$
$2.$ $I= \{a+bi : 7\mid a, 7\mid b\} \subseteq \mathbb{Z}[i].$
$3.$ $I=\{(a,b) : 9\mid a, 9\mid b\} \subseteq \mathbb{Z}\bigoplus \mathbb{Z}$
I'm not looking for a higher-level mathematics approach; i'm not there yet. I just need an "elementary" approach somewhat similar to what I've done below.
$1.$
Consider the ideal $I= \{(a,b) : 7\mid a, 7\mid b\}\subseteq \mathbb{Z}\bigoplus\mathbb{Z}.$ Since $(1,1)\not\in I, I\neq \mathbb{Z}\bigoplus\mathbb{Z}.$ We will show that this is not maximal. Let $J=\{(a,b) : 7 \mid a\}\subseteq \mathbb{Z}\bigoplus\mathbb{Z}.$ For all $(a,b)\in I,7\mid a,$ so $(a,b)\in J.$ Thus $I\subseteq J.$ However, $(7,1)\not\in I$ but $(7,1)\in J$, so $I\subsetneq J.$ We now show that $J$ is an ideal. Let $(a,b),(c,d)\in J.$ Then $7\mid a,7\mid c$ and $b,d\in\mathbb{Z}.$ Thus $(a,b)-(c,d)=(a-c,b-d).$ Since $7\mid a$ and $7\mid c,7\mid (a-c)$ (since $a=7k_1, c=7k_2,k_1,k_2\in\mathbb{Z},$ and $a-c = 7(k_1-k_2), k_1-k_2\in\mathbb{Z}$). As well, $b-d\in\mathbb{Z}$ so $(a,b)-(c,d)\in J.$ Now let $(x,y)\in \mathbb{Z}\bigoplus\mathbb{Z}.$ Then $(a,b)\cdot (x,y) = (ax,by).$ Since $7\mid a, 7\mid ax$. Since $by\in \mathbb{Z},$ we have that $(a,b)(x,y)\in J\;\forall (x,y)\in\mathbb{Z}\bigoplus\mathbb{Z}.$ Thus $J$ is an ideal. Since $I$ is a proper subset of $J\subseteq \mathbb{Z}\bigoplus\mathbb{Z}, I$ is not maximal.
$2.$
Consider the ideal $I=\{a+bi : 7\mid a , 7\mid b\}\subseteq \mathbb{Z}[i].$ Since $1+i \not\in I, I\subsetneq \mathbb{Z}[i].$ We will show that this is maximal. Let $J$ be an ideal of $\mathbb{Z}[i]$ such that $I\subsetneq J\subseteq \mathbb{Z}[i].$ We will show that $J-\mathbb{Z}[i].$ Let $a\in J\backslash I.$ Then $a=(x,y)$ for some integers $x,y$ such that $7\nmid x$ or $7\nmid y.$
$3.$ Will a similar proof to the first proof suffice? (I'm really unsure about this and I'm just asking this one to clarify my understanding)
The abstract algebra is not elementary. Then in my opinion, the necessary and sufficient condition for the ideal to be maximal in a ring is a standard algebra knowledge. :)