The key idea in this case is to construct a (almost canonical) homomorphism from $S_3$ to $D_3$, whose kernel is exactly $T_3$. Existence of such a map proves two things - that $T_3$ is an ideal of $S_3$ (since it is the kernel of a ring homomorphism),
and the fact that $S_3 /T_3 \cong D_3$ (from Ist Isomorphism Theorem).
Define $f : S_3 \to D_3$ by,
$\begin{pmatrix}
a & b & c \\
0 & d & e \\
0 & 0 & f
\end{pmatrix} \mapsto \begin{pmatrix}
a & 0 & 0 \\
0 & d & 0 \\
0 & 0 & f
\end{pmatrix}
$
One can easily check that this indeed is a ring homomorphism with kernel being precisely $T_3$.
The key idea in this case is to construct a (almost canonical) homomorphism from $S_3$ to $D_3$, whose kernel is exactly $T_3$. Existence of such a map proves two things - that $T_3$ is an ideal of $S_3$ (since it is the kernel of a ring homomorphism), and the fact that $S_3 /T_3 \cong D_3$ (from Ist Isomorphism Theorem).
Define $f : S_3 \to D_3$ by, $\begin{pmatrix} a & b & c \\ 0 & d & e \\ 0 & 0 & f \end{pmatrix} \mapsto \begin{pmatrix} a & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & d & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & f \end{pmatrix} $
One can easily check that this indeed is a ring homomorphism with kernel being precisely $T_3$.