Here is a proof for $\lim_{x\to2} 3x^2 = 12$
We are given some $\epsilon > 0$, and we need to find $\delta$ such that
$0 < |x-2| < \delta \Rightarrow |3x^2 - 12| < \epsilon$
The inequality $|3x^2 - 12| < \epsilon$ will be more useful if it is in terms of $x-2$ rather than x, since the inequality $0 < |x-2| < \delta$ is in terms of $x-2$. For simplicity, let $z = x-2$. Then we wish to find $\delta$ such that
$0 < |z| < \delta \Rightarrow |3(z+2)^2 - 12| < \epsilon$
We can simplify this to
$0 < |z| < \delta \Rightarrow |3z^2 + 12z| < \epsilon$
However, we know that $|3z^2 +12z|\leq|3z^2|+|12z|=3z^2 + 12|z|$. So it suffices to find $\delta$ such that
$0 < |z| < \delta \Rightarrow 3z^2 + 12|z| < \epsilon$
If $ 0 < |z| < \delta$, then $3z^2 + 12|z| < 3\delta^2 + 12\delta = 3\delta(4 + \delta)$. Thus it suffices to choose $\delta$ such that
$3\delta(4 + \delta) < \epsilon$
The $4 + \epsilon$ term is somewhat annoying. We can make it simpler by assuming that $\delta \leq 1$.
If we assume that $\delta \leq 1$, then $4+\delta \leq 5$, and the inequality that we need becomes simply
$3\delta(4+\delta) \leq 15\delta < \epsilon$
To force this to be true, we select $\delta = \frac{\epsilon}{15}$. (In the unlikely event that $\epsilon > 15$, we can just take $\delta = 1$.) We then conclude that
$0 < |z| < \delta \Rightarrow |3x^2 - 12| < 3\delta(4 + \delta) \leq 15\delta=\epsilon$.
Thus, for any $\epsilon < 15$, we have found that $\delta = \frac{\epsilon}{15}$ satisfies the $\delta$-$\epsilon$ condition:
$0 < |x-2| < \delta \Rightarrow |3x^2 - 12| < \epsilon$
and hence we have stablished that $\lim_{x\to2} 3x^2 = 12$
What I don't understand is why just because something is greater than $|3z^2 + 12z|$ It suffices to find $\delta$ using it. I mean by that logic couldn't I say something like
$|3z^2 + 12z| \leq |3z^2 + 12z| + z^{5000000}$, so it suffices to find $\delta$ such that $0 < |z| < \delta \Rightarrow|3z^2 + 12z| + z^{5000000} < \epsilon$
Any help would be appreciated
[This is an answer directly answering your confusion.]
So here is your question: why "it suffices to find $\delta$ such that (b) is true" while what we want is (a).
Suppose you have found a $\delta$ such that (b) is true. Then since "we know that" $$ |3z^2 +12z|\leq|3z^2|+|12z|=3z^2 + 12|z|\tag{c}, $$ we have $$ 0 < |z| < \delta \Rightarrow |3z^2 + 12z| \leq 3z^2 + 12|z|< \epsilon. $$
The reason to work on (b) instead of (a) is not only it is logically correct but also it is useful to find out a $\delta$ one needs. It is logically correct but useless to say that